| Perfect love casts out fear. |
| |
May God build First Mennonite Church with
Structures of Love. |
| |
Structures of FEAR
| | Structures of LOVE |
make demands
| -
| invite participation
|
tell and sell
| - | listen, consult, and pray
|
| lord it over others | -
| regard each person equally
|
| compete | -
| cooperate
|
| manipulate | -
| wash feet
|
| seek to win | -
| seek peaceful resolution
|
| threaten to reject | -
| accept other's freedom to say no
|
| seek to control | -
| seek to include
|
| avoid conflict | -
| risk conflict to arrive at peace
|
| overrule minorities | -
| seek Spirit-led consensus
|
| rigidly hold to the standard | -
| reach for new leadings of the Holy Spirit
|
Home Page 